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You can avoid a breakup with your lover if you are aware of the warning signs. There are some similar symptoms of trouble that can be observed in all relationships.

1) You may be getting ignored by your partner.

This does not mean that your partner is not talking to you. Loosing interest in the other person and not worrying about how they are or their where abouts, is the point that I am trying to make. It’s almost like two ships that are passing by each other, and so may be now you need to work on your love life.

You need to stop to think that why you are being ignored? Did you not remember their birthday or any other special occasion? Are you any less loving or affectionate these days? Could they be feeling neglected? There could be a reaction to something that happened earlier. So it’s important to understand your partners view point and keep them happy because after all you love them.

Surprise them with a meal out and talk about what the problem is. Try to ask them why are they grumpy and for heaven sake phrase that nicely? It could be a totally different problem that they are worried about and not your relationship. Communication is not always what it should be like in a relationship, but one has to talk. It might just lead you somewhere.

2) Your partner shows disinterest in seeing you or going out with you.

In case your loves becomes unavailable and too busy without any reason then your alarm buttons should ring. After all there is a reason behind such behavior and you need to know that. There is no need to become a doormat or a bedmat actually! Don’t make an excuse for not facing your girlfriend or boyfriend. In any case don’t be ignorant of these signs or the result could be a breakup letter.

3) Your partner is maintaining distance in the bedroom.

It may sound like only a three letter word, but sex can cause big problems. Asking a couple who has been together for long can probably tell that. At times family and other life issues can become blockages in the way of lovemaking. It’s true that the animal like attraction for it does not stay for long and so not making love every night might be ok. What is not ok is if that intimacy is not there for months. It is the shared emotions that keep people together. Hence a cuddle and hug are very important.

Your partner’s happiness and sadness must be known to you. Although sometimes their behavior will not be because of any of your reactions, but it’s a strong indication of some trouble boiling up. Be more careful towards these signals of a breakup. Or be ready to be single again and then you have all the time to analyze the reasons for it.

You can discover more about venting and the other Immediate Reconnect Strategies to get your ex back in a free course about Get Your Ex Back In A Day. Hans S Delane teaches relationship and emotional intelligence courses and you can get the free course Getting Your Ex Back Fast here at Help With Exgirlfriend.

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